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HELP! He Is 22 Years Older Than Me, But His Sex Is So Good

  • Posted On: 18th September 2012
  • With 34 Comments

I am dating a man who’s 22 years older than I am. I am deeply in love with him. His sex is so good that I can’t resist. As soon as he touches me, I become soaking wet.

I have never liked the idea of dating older men but he has changed that perception, He is a very experienced man. Not only sexually, but very educated, decent a well spoken. He doesn’t trust me, he’s a control freak, I can’t leave the house without him thinking I have gone elsewhere.

girl HELP! He Is 22 Years Older Than Me, But His Sex Is So GoodHe has sexually linked me with every male friend that I have either had a fling with them in the past or they are intending to have a sexual relationship with me. When we fight he hits and pushes me.Recently, he’s been in touch with his ex-girlfriend of 6 years.

I can’t tolerate that woman, she’s the reason why my boyfriend has had a divorce 3 times . She’s always popping into the picture making our relationship difficult. He’s always telling me he’s not in touch with her, I shouldn’t worry and he doesn’t love her. Recently, i have started noticing some changes in his behaviour towards me.

He doesn’t hold me, kiss me, give me attention, tell me he loves me and we don’t do things that we use to do. He goes out all day without calling me and will later give me some excuses.

This same week, i caught him on the phone talking to his ex- girlfriend of 6 years at 2am. As soon as I walked into the room, he chucked his phone away and had a very suspicious look, I cried my eyes out the whole night. In the morning he told me that he’s ignored her phone calls so many times that she couldn’t anymore.

He’s always having an affair with this girl even when he was married. If he can have a relationship with her while he’s married, who am i for him not to cheat on me with her? Could it be that they are back together? I think he’s cheating on me, I know he is not the right man for me because he doesn’t treat me like I deserved to be treated but I am deeply in love with this man. Do you think he loves Me? Should I walk away from this relationship?

I need your advice.

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34 Comments

  1. Justice Opoku-frimpong · September 18, 2012

    Better confess your sins to God and accept Jesus as your savior and wait upon Him, He will give u a better man as husband.

  2. Justice Opoku-frimpong · September 18, 2012

    Better confess your sins to God and accept Jesus as your savior and wait upon Him, He will give u a better man as husband.

  3. Jolaoso Olamilekan Wasiu · September 18, 2012

    when you know that he's not the right man for you why are you still with him, don't forced yourself to someone that doesn't know your worth or doesn't love you because you will end up being dumped at the end, they are other guys out there who will love you and care about you.

  4. Jolaoso Olamilekan Wasiu · September 18, 2012

    when you know that he's not the right man for you why are you still with him, don't forced yourself to someone that doesn't know your worth or doesn't love you because you will end up being dumped at the end, they are other guys out there who will love you and care about you.

  5. Ofoma Franklyn · September 18, 2012

    sit down and think of your life.

  6. Ofoma Franklyn · September 18, 2012

    sit down and think of your life.

  7. Ofoma Franklyn · September 18, 2012

    sit down and think of your life.

  8. Tunde Phillip · September 18, 2012

    You are just his sex toy, when he finally gets tired of you, he will abandon you like used tissue paper. It is still early for you, you better pack your bags and baggage, and run like Usain Bolt.

  9. Tunde Phillip · September 18, 2012

    You are just his sex toy, when he finally gets tired of you, he will abandon you like used tissue paper. It is still early for you, you better pack your bags and baggage, and run like Usain Bolt.

  10. Aliyu Sadiq · September 18, 2012

    Walk away and pray for the right alternative. All the best.

    • Thomason Terry · October 31, 2012

      You think you can sustain the relationship? A man that was married to 3 ladies before meeting you,don’t you think that the same thing that happened to those 3 ladies will still happen to you If you remain in the relationship? You better run because what you are doing is unscriptural. Let me tell you,the man is using charm to Make love with you if you don’t know,no matter how old you are,a better one than him will come,if you have not surrendered your life to Christ Jesus,just do because that will help you more to come out from this man’s bondage. And don’t allow sex to be your number one in life ok.

  11. Opeyemi Komolafe · September 18, 2012

    you are crazy.

  12. Samuel Nutakor · September 18, 2012

    Nobody came to this world with a wife or a husband. The choice is made by YOU. And I do not think you will dip your into blazing fire to burn you. Remember you were created by GOD almighty in HIS own image.
    so you have an owner of your body with which one day you will give an account of what you use it for. Hell is waiting for those who do not accept JESUS CHRIST AS THEIR PERSONAL SAVIOR. so my Dear sister just stop all these unrighteous behavior, confess your sins to GOD and find someone who is higher than you in Christianity to help you in your daily life. And I hope God has Special purpose for you. May GOD bless you.

  13. Samuel Nutakor · September 18, 2012

    Nobody came to this world with a wife or a husband. The choice is made by YOU. And I do not think you will dip your into blazing fire to burn you. Remember you were created by GOD almighty in HIS own image.
    so you have an owner of your body with which one day you will give an account of what you use it for. Hell is waiting for those who do not accept JESUS CHRIST AS THEIR PERSONAL SAVIOR. so my Dear sister just stop all these unrighteous behavior, confess your sins to GOD and find someone who is higher than you in Christianity to help you in your daily life. And I hope God has Special purpose for you. May GOD bless you.

  14. Jacob L · September 18, 2012

    no stay put, just remain there and enjoy the sex and tears

  15. Yenyo Iromini Jr. · September 18, 2012

    THIS GIRL IS JUST A BASTARD!

  16. luv · September 18, 2012

    U beta leave him

  17. Skipinghead · September 19, 2012

    if you walk away, you might still come back some day, bcoz u said it u love him, the only option is taking your own life by ur self, animal like

  18. Ability Njoku · September 21, 2012

    you need to reconcile with jesus.

  19. Ability Njoku · September 21, 2012

    you need to reconcile with jesus.

  20. Adeclem · September 25, 2012

    I think you are the one that is forcing yourself on the guy,you better leave him and look for someone that is responsible and caring that will love you…..Your problem is sex,if you want to have a good relationship,erase sex desire and emotional from your mind because it will also affect you even when you have another person

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